Too Much Love Kills?

I had thought just now that,
when you love too much, you'll always
expecting something in return, and
setting yourself up for disappointment.
You have been criticized and taken for
granted. You're inviting yourself to become a
victim. Loving too much isn’t real love
it's living in a bubble of selfishness,
loneliness and LACK OF SELF-ESTEEM. (argh)
maybe people who love their partners too
much are destroying the relationship. In
place of balance and affection, You feel
anger, resentment, frustration and even
hatred for the fact that You're not
receiving the same kind, or the same
amount, of love.
they always say that LOVE is a choice.
It should be balanced and positive, not
total, fanatical, automatic and
compulsive. You love too much, and in
the effect of trying to force others to
love you back. Loving someone endlessly
and unconditionally isn’t love it’s a
compulsive disorder and a form of
emotional blackmail.
Feeling obligated to love is not love.
You loved because you don't want to be alone.
Neither is the willingness to compromise
over everything, nor is self-sacrifice.
Blind, absolute confidence in being
loved isn’t love but arrogance and
complacency. The willingness to give up
on comfort, sexuality isn't love it's
stupidity.
Love means making a daily choice of
wanting to be together. Love cannot be
taken for granted. It has to be renewed
all the time, every day. Real love means
loving yourself, for unless you love yourself
you will never be able to truly love
someone else. Instead, love will be
dependent, artificial and forced.
loving someone too much will make
him love you less, not more. It may
sound illogical, but the fact is that
when your love is unrestrained, his ardor
and enthusiasm will lessen. Exaggerated
expressions of love will make him want
to seek distance, not get closer.
Real love shouldn't be crazy. It should
be fun, happy and balanced. People often
wrongly assume that craziness is a sign
of true love. Craziness, however, is
merely a sign of craziness. Love has no
need for it. In fact it is often that
craziness always kills you in the end. :(
its a shame to accept it and tell it, but thats how it is. so
COMPLICATED and SELF-DISTURBING. :)